How To Stop Struggling

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httpv://youtu.be/pArcHs18qgA

Yes, I know times are tough for most. The conversations are dismal out there. People are giving up on their dreams. They are walking away from something they spent countless hours building. The unemployment line is getting longer and longer. No one really knows when things will get back to normal.

The politicians are telling us stories that are contradictory depending on what party they belong to. Some say the recession is over. Others say we still have a long way go. To me, they are using words to play on people’s emotions. That explains why I don’t watch television. I don’t want to worry about things I can’t control.

I created this video to inspire you to keep pressing on. The reality is, there are many people out there who are doing extremely well. I see crowded restaurants and malls often when I travel. I really don’t know that means. I just know some people are not struggling.

Now, I say this to let you know no matter how tough your current situation may be, there’s hope. Keep hanging in there. You may think you are struggling. But your definition of struggle may be completely wrong.

How about you are experiencing a breakdown for your  breakthrough. Have you ever thought about it this way? Go ahead and start watching the video now to discover how to stop struggling.

54 Comments

  1. Maria

    Hi Rene,
    Wonderful video! Thanks for sharing inspiring words! Many years ago one of my Christian mentors use the teaching of the caterpillar as an example of a new life in Christ! When we die to ourselves God’s glory is manifested in us as a beautiful butterfly that comes out of the cacoon! Your insight is very similar! So I was reminded of that lesson I learn long ago! Blessings upon blessings to you and yours! 🙂

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    • Rene Godefroy

      You are welcome Maria! Keep pressing on!

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      • Maria

        Thanks you too!

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  2. Carlos Arredondo

    Rene…
    Don’t leave us alone for too long, I missed your encouraging messages and inspirational histories, I’m an immigrant too, I love this country and I will not rest until I become a real asset to the people living here, just the way you are doing.

    Thanks so much.
    Carlos Arredondo
    California USA

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    • Rene Godefroy

      Wow! You’re so right Carlos. You are already a real asset to the people here. Keep pressing on!

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  3. Sarah

    I thank you very much for htis wake up e-mail, it means a lot to me. May God richly bless you and your family.

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    • Rene Godefroy

      It’s my pleasure Sarah. I’m glad the video was a wake up call for you. Never, ever, give up.

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  4. denis

    I like your spirit, did you know that they have a motivational speech coming up at world congress center this month ?

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    • Rene Godefroy

      Hi Denis. No, I’m not aware of a motivational speech at the world congress center this month. It must not be me speaking there, hugh?

      Reply
  5. Jim

    Rene-

    So glad you’re back, and in a BIG way! This is a great video, and it came just when I needed it. I recently joined a large, national company, a leader in its field, in a sales position. I want to succeed mightily with this company, but in the first month I am really struggling, and the pressure from management is very intense. So, your video was very timely. Thanks for being right on time with your words of encouragement. Knowing you, your story and all that you endured to achieve success, how could I ever give up and quit? I will “press on”!
    -Jim C.
    Myrtle Beach, SC, USA

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    • Rene Godefroy

      Hi Jim… That is so awesome! Do whatever it takes to succeed in that position. You are so smart and brilliant. Don’t let frustration stand in your way. Show up BIG everyday.

      Keep asking yourself, “How can I get better at this?” Ask persistently and answers will begin to pop in your head like popcorns. I know you can. You’ve done it before.

      Press on!!!! Go, go, go!

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  6. wallace campbell

    very inspiring you are always positive. will take
    your advise and keep struggling thank you.

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  7. Samba

    Thanks Rene
    Good video. I like it. Iam also excited to start my class very soon.
    Samba

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  8. Loseney A Jabateh

    Well Rene this one is more than just a video. I personally consider it as direct Hand in Hand assistance in keep our dedications to pursuing our dreams. Honestly before encountering this video I was kind of confuse and very tired of my situation and really tough on going back despite the fact that I also have the quest to become a motivational speaker but I must admit that this video give me the appetite to eat much more than I expected in recent days. Rene you have inspire me even a million times to keep pressing to reach my goal. Remember I promise to keep in my record and lay reference to you for inspiring me. this one is 100% excellence.

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    • Rene Godefroy

      No more confusion for you Loseney. Your quest to become a motivational speaker is over. You’re already a motivational speaker. Now, it’s time to stand. It’s time to deliver. Start anywhere. Start with what you have. Just start. Your message needs to be heard. Write an article. Create a video. Record an audio. Put up a blog. Do something right now.

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      • Loseney Alieu Jabateh

        Rene, this is Loseney I’m quite sure you might try to remember me but just reference our previous conversations on this blog. I’m speaking now and currently in the United States. All I hope for right now is to meet or have some direct conversation with u either by phone or mail.

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  9. Nerlie

    Ren

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    • Rene Godefroy

      Hi Nerlie… Thanks for your comment. I’m glad you’re a in my inner circle. Let’s stay connected.

      Reply
  10. Bill Gozo

    Thank you for this video Rene. It was very inspirational, and your success is thanks to one thing – an indomitable spirit.

    You have that within you, and you’ve shared it with the world. Thanks for spreading your message, and for being a powerful reminder to people everywhere, at all stages of life, who need to hear a message like this!

    -Bill

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    • Rene Godefroy

      We all need reminders. And it doesn’t matter what your level of success is. Glad you enjoyed the video Bill. Stay connected.

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  11. rusty lynn potter(marathon runner from Louisiana)

    HELLO RENE, GOOD TO HEAR FROM YOU. I ENJOYED THE VIDEO. I HAVE STARTED SPEAKING AT RECREATION CENTERS. NEXT YEAR I SPEAK AT A SCHOOL. YOUR VIDEO HAS INSPIRED ME TO CONTINUE TO PURSUE MY CALLING. THANKS, LYNN

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    • Rene Godefroy

      Rusty, I know you are more than capable of making a significant difference in the world. You have what it takes. I tell you what… If you can run a marathon, you can do anything, man. I have done a few half marathons. I have yet to muster the courage to do a full one. Kudos to you.

      Get ready to uplift and inspire those children in a very powerful way Rusty. Stay committed and focused! Press on!

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  12. rose

    hi i’m glad to hear from you, thank you for the video. it feels like you can sense that i’m going through a rough patch, but hey!i have decided to be a caterpillar. thank you so much Rene.

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    • Rene Godefroy

      Awesome Rose! You have the internal fortitude to overcome whatever is pressing you down. As the Bible says, “Greater is he that is inside of you than he that is in the world.” Keep pressing on! Victory is yours!

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  13. Tombara

    Rene, i really want to say a big thank you for your encouragemnt.you are absolutely right.Before now i use to be worried about every little thing especially in my love life when the man is giving me attitude and hurting my emotions.

    But i have come to realise now not to worry about things that i can’t control

    Thank you for your advice.

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    • Rene Godefroy

      Good for you Tombara! Change is an inside out job. The moment you change your view, you change your world. That is so beautiful! It’s amazing how we have the answers if we can take the time to question ourselves and think. Proud of you Tombara.

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  14. Motlatsi

    Ahhhhhh, Rene, this is so fantastic! Its a lifter, it changes one’s life forever. May the good Lord keep on providing you with perfectly inspirational and uplifting words of wisdom.

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    • Rene Godefroy

      Motlatsi, thanks for chiming in. I’m really happy so many of you find this video uplifting. It means a lot to me. It’s my deep desire to continue making a mark in the world. Together, we can do it. I urge to inspire someone today. Just say something nice.

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  15. Vida Tampogre

    What will I do to look and act just like you?

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    • Rene Godefroy

      You don’t have to do anything to look and act like me. Just look and act like you. That’s all it takes. Work daily on being the best you. Improve in the areas that are critical to your success.

      You are unique in your own way. Showing up as me would do you no justice. It’s great to model success but not a person.

      Since you can never be someone else because of your unique DNA, keep this in mind: The best you is far better than a lousy somebody else.

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  16. Aigbogun Osagie Jolly

    Papa u are wonder+ful=wonderful, in short i do not no how to express my joy when i hear back frm u mentor of a true i really miss you 4 some time so i am very happy now u are back. in short d clip is a BOMB a just finish downing it now. so my mentor advice me now the way i give ithink is get out of hand because some time i can not even save any thing at the end of the month so master i need ur word…..

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  17. Themba Mkandla

    Wow, what a powerful video Rene. One surely doesn’t have any excuses more especially after hearing your life story which many of us can identify with. I will immediately post this on my Facebook page for my friends cause they always bring these challenges they face in their lives and it’s not always easy to advise them meaningfully.Besides, I am using it personally to inspire me towards my dreams. Thanks a million for this, God Bless

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    • Rene Godefroy

      it’s my pleasure Themba. Thanks for sharing it with your friends.

      Reply
  18. christopher

    awesome…great

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  19. raina

    that was a really good advice. i will work harder towards my goal.

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  20. joseph felix augustin

    Rene,

    Your story is so powerful. I read it before. However, hearing it today from you in your video, makes a very powerful impact on me. Your story is so similar to mine and many other Haitians. I will follow your footsteps and your advices. They are really powerful.

    Please let me know if you could give a talk in the Washington, DC area. Thanks.

    Felix

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    • Rene Godefroy

      Hi Felix. Thanks for checking in. You are powerful as well. Keep pressing on!
      Yes, I can give a talk in the Washington area.

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  21. kingsley paa Grant

    Am touch by the message and i think u are the best friend i have ever met.

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  22. Nana Amoah

    Rene,

    This is Nana, from Ghana. Currently I am studying here in the US, at Indiana University, Bloomington for my PhD. I totally agree with you, the message is clear, I am really touched by it.
    Thanks so much. You remember I once asked if you could come to Ghana?
    Keep on the good work.

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    • Rene Godefroy

      Absolutely Nana. I remember you. I am glad you are pressing on! Congratulations on your accomplishments.
      Really soon, you’ll be Dr. Amoah! (The butterfly.) Cool! Do whatever it takes to see it through.

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  23. Jean Oscar

    You make me cry while left up mmy spirit.I’ve been in the US for the 18 yrs.I always want to go to college,but I have to take care the rest of my family in Haiti.Now I am married have a child, but still want to accomplish my dreams.I am starting college, Man is not easy.Guest what after I watch your video anytime I feel discourage I will get back in watch it again. Thank you for your motivation.

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  24. G. P

    Very encouraging!!!Thank you.

    Dr. Prince

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  25. churchill oyoko

    I am always so inspired by you rene. How do i get your book of kick your excuses goodbye. I love you

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    • Rene Godefroy

      It’s my pleasure Churchill. Carry on!

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  26. Hardik

    Great !!!!!

    Agree with you !!!

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  27. ravi

    Thank you so much rene ,you gave me this video at right time ,i am struggling so much about my career. THANK YOU again rene

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    • Rene Godefroy

      You are not supposed to struggle. Figure out a way to solve your problems. The answers are inside of you. Never give up! Keep pressing on!

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  28. Frantzy cadet

    Hi Rene Godefroy How why you doing you are a inspiring speaker my name is pastor
    cadet frantzcy. I want to thank you for your advise and word of wisdom. may God continue to bless you on your gernie.

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    • Rene Godefroy

      Thanks Pastor Frantzcy. Keep doing the great work you’re doing!

      Reply
  29. Vetriselvan

    Rene,

    I’m Vetri from India. I’m working in a Logistics company and aimed to start a business, making good money and start charitable to halp poor students. your words are inspiring me to work towards my goal without quit to fight…I will.

    Thank you very much…

    Reply
    • Rene Godefroy

      Hello Vetri,

      Follow your heart, dream and passion. Go for it. You’re bound to become a wealth humanitarian in India. Keep pressing in spite of the challenges. You will win!

      Reply
  30. Chance

    Great Video Rene! Nice and simple but very much to the point. Thanks for the message. Keep inspiring folks.

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    • Rene Godefroy

      Thanks for your feedback Chance. Press on!

      Reply
  31. lynn

    Hello Rene,
    You are very inspiring and I would love to adapt your skills too becoming a modivational speaker. Soon I will need to stand up in front of a group to spell out my business. I cant wait till that day comes to show them what I have learned from you. Thank You Rene
    Lynn

    Reply

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